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Criticism shall always exist and constructive criticism is usually beneficial. Unfortunately most criticism isn't constructive but destructive. We have all criticised somebody throughout our life but it is those that do it for personal satisfaction or victory that bother me. As long as I can remember I have wanted to act, fortunately I always had the full support of my parents. My brothers are another story, it seems they are born critics. The words they spat at me throughout my teens and early twenties were criminal to say to any young person with a dream. A lot of it, I assume, is misunderstanding on their part. When one doesn't understand, one criticises and makes assumptions. Anyone treading an artistic path (whether it be acting, writing, art or music) is going to cop a fair deal of unsolicited advice. Julia Cameron uses the labels 'creative saboteurs' or 'wet blanket matadors' for these particular critics in her book 'Walking In This World.' She explains -
Later in the chapter Julia describes two types of creative saboteurs -
Yesterday I spoke to a friend who is an amazingly gifted and active artist. For personal reasons he is currently receiving the dole and like all newcomers to government assistance, has to complete a job search training course. The Job Network organisation asks that you complete 100 hours of job searching in the space of 3 weeks, and not necessarily for the job you want but any job. Their role is to get you off benefits, and this I can understand. What I cannot understand is the attitude that was shown when my friend mentioned that his real vocation in life was painting. 'Thats just a pipe dream' was the reply. A pipe dream? No sorry Mr Job Network Man, my friend is a painter and a fine one. His paintings are true art and his journey in life is to paint. I felt so angry when I heard this story, maybe because of my own sensitivity to criticism. I personally would never attack someone for their chosen path, the action would give me no thrills. I would prefer to encourage and enquire as to their plan of action towards their goal. Anything is possible, the proof is everywhere. Jack Johnson (the boxer), Abraham Lincoln, Nelson Mandella, Charles Bukowski - they all had something in common: a dream, a vision... I hope their critics are stinging. After all one has to be fair! © 2007 Vanessa de Largie |
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